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5 Tips for the Most Effective Caregiver Journaling

By Denise Roskamp

Caregivers in Lincoln MA

Journaling can be one of the most effective tools that you can use throughout your caregiver journey to help you to ease your stress, process your emotions, and give yourself perspective on the issues that you face. This can help you to maintain better mental and emotional health, ease anxiety, and bring more meaning into your journey now and into the future. In order to get the most benefit from this experience, you must approach it effectively and with dedication.

Use these tips to help you handle your caregiver journaling effectively:

• Choose a journal you love. There is no hard and fast rule about what your journal should look like. If you choose one that you enjoy looking at, holding, and writing in, you are more likely to go through this process regularly. If at all possible, choose to write your journal rather than maintaining it online. While an online journal still lets you express yourself, studies have shown that the physical act of writing is more compelling and encourages more expression, honesty, and thought.

• Just get started. Often people resist journaling because it seems like such a “big deal” or they feel that they have to do it in some specific way. Get these thoughts out of your mind and just get started. Whether your first entry is just a few words or it becomes pages of thought, embarking on that first entry will help to break through the barriers that you might feel and get you in the habit. Remember that this journal is for you. It does not need to look like or sound like any other journal, and it does not need to comply with anything.

• Date the pages. Make an effort to give each entry a new page or at least a new section of a page and to date that page. This will help you to stay organized with your thoughts and enable you to go back and read through your entries later and know what you were talking about. This is also effective if you record concerns that you might have about your parent and want to later share them with a doctor or other professional.

• Be honest. This is your private record. It is not for anyone else so there is no reason for you not to be completely honest when writing in it. Being open and straightforward is essential to truly expressing your emotions, processing through situations, and gaining perspective. Even if you are uncomfortable with what you are thinking or feeling, be true to yourself and express it honestly.

• Be consistent. Those who journal regularly are the most likely to gain benefit from the process. This does not mean that you have to do it at the same time every day or force yourself to write the same amount each time that you sit down to journal. Try to write every day or every other day, however. This gives you the most opportunity to express yourself, keeps an accurate and reliable record, and gives you something to look forward to.