Senior Home Care Blog - Thousand Oaks

Are You Providing Care for an Aging Parent or Loved One?

By George & Patricia Jones

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If you're taking care of an elderly mother or father or dealing with the demands of helping a loved one or friend who is chronically sick, elderly or disabled, you’re not alone. You are one of millions of Americans who take care of an aging adult. Family caregivers comprise about 80 percent of at home care, but as opposed to registered nurses and home health aides, they are unpaid for their kindly acts.

Caregiving is a hard job that can put a strain on marriages, careers and emotional wellness. Those who care for loved ones must be sure to care for themselves, too.

Here are some essential suggestions for caregivers:

• It's Difficult to Tell Your Parents What to Do
The most difficult factor about looking after an aging mother or father is the moment you have to tell them they need to have help, that they can no longer drive a car or they may have to move from their home. Consider their long-term care needs and wants before any decline appears.

• Don't Be Frightened to Seek Help
We often wait until we are in predicament before requesting assistance and consultation. Choose the help of a licensed clinical social worker or other qualified specialist.

• Stay Well-Informed
We dwell in a world of continual change. Procedures and medications are always changing and the sole solution to keep up-to-date is to stay informed with the most up to date facts. Attend nearby caregiver conferences, participate in support groups, talk with friends and family members, and talk with professionals in the profession of gerontology and geriatrics.

• Take Care of Your Psychological Health
It’s not surprising to feel irked with your parents or loved ones when they turn down your recommendations and support. Find a recommendation to a specialist who can help you deal with your private issues and frustrations.

• Relax
Caregivers who experience feelings of exhaustion should understand that sometimes they may require a respite from their loved one so as to provide him or her with the most effective care.

• Have a Good Laugh
Laughter and humor are incredible healers.

You may want to employ help if possible. The most critical thing is to find dependable professionals to offer help. Use referred home care providers, speak with friends about their experiences and interview experts before deciding on the one you’re planning to hire.

Please feel free to contact Home Helpers with any questions you may have. We’re here to help.

Home Helpers of Thousand Oaks is a locally-owned, trusted home health care agency and offers quality, compassionate senior in-home care services including home care assistance, personal care, companion care, respite care, Alzheimer's & dementia care as well as homemaker services in Ventura, Thousand Oaks, Camarillo, Oxnard, Moorpark, Malibu, Agoura Hills, Calabasas, Lake Sherwood, Newbury Park, Oak Park, North Ranch, Pacific Palisades, Westlake Village, Simi Valley, Woodland Hills, Topanga, and Somis.